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3 Steps to Opening Your Heart for Deeper Love
About Kimberly and Love Intelligence
How I got from interior design of the home to interior design of the heart.
As an interior designer, I came into coaching from an unusual angle.
Although interiors and solving design problems excited me I had an affinity for colour. It was always a passion from the beginning, rolling around in paint as a kid while my Mum worked on her art projects.
I always considered the colours of my clothes and shoes and I loved creating wildflowers arrangements from our rural property.
I learned how good it felt to use my creativity and knack for colour relationships in the ‘real world’.
I particularly loved challenging boring commercial spaces or laboratories with colour (which I won an award for) or helping families create harmony in their home using design and décor.
At the same time working on my own art as another form of creative expression of feelings and emotions that I didn’t have words for.
There was a subtle intuitiveness that I was developing back then that later on became a significant influence in how I now help others.
I didn’t know it at the time but working with people on their dream designs and renovations would lead me to helping people with an even more intimate outcome, the healing of their hearts and minds.
This might sound random to you but did you know that the vibrational frequency of colour can actually lead to healing emotional blockages?
This was another step along that bridge to coaching. I broke through some blocks and subconscious fears when I learned colour psychology in hypnotic meditation and it truly blew my mind.
This was my first deep dive into the realms of personal development and shifting limiting beliefs.
It came at the perfect yet difficult time in my life, I was pregnant and was pretty certain I needed to leave the father (my partner of 7yrs).
The closer I got to my son’s birth date the more gripped I was by the need to get myself out of that emotionally hectic and unstable relationship.
Three weeks before he was due my own father died then one week later I broke up with my partner and a week after that my son was born. A tumultuous time to say the least, but I’d made that decision, to leave FOR REAL.
I upended my life – I didn’t know what the f*@k I was going to do next but I was FREE.
Who would have guessed that colour would lead me to transform my life and support me through a time like this.
I thought the colour mustard yellow was disgusting but it was the inlet to my subconscious fears.
Through this colour I obliterated significant limiting beliefs and habits and created a completely new abundance in life – needless to say I love colour psychology and mustard yellow now!
Through this chapter of my life I discovered real PASSION and DRIVE; to create an emotionally safe and love filled home environment for my son to grow up in and manifest the man of my dreams to match it.
With all of this percolating inside it was natural for me to start inquiring even further into self-love and personal development. I spent the next decade gaining experience, learning holistic tools and earning world class qualifications to serve at a deeper and more powerful level than I ever had before.
I love this quote by Rumi – “Know that one day your pain will be your cure”.
Pain and pleasure in relationships is universal but the details of our childhood pain is so different. No matter what you’ve experienced in the past that may be holding you hostage – be it adverse sexual experiences or relentless feelings of unworthiness – the methods I use and teach are designed to truly help and stay for life.
Through my own growth and healing over the last 20 years I’ve overcome childhood traumas from being affected by alcoholism, neglected, being bullied and having regular stage fright in school – to later on being in toxic and codependent relationships.
I had to find myself again and again after losing who I was in all of these situations.
This led me to a specific and deep inner child healing method that I am a practitioner of.
I now enjoy rich, profound, interdependant friendships with men and women. My intimate love relationship is emotionally and spiritually satisfying and easy to navigate. I don’t fall into old patterns of defensiveness or triggers. If an uncomfortable situation does arise I feel safe in my body to be with it, feel it and witness – as I gather the gifts from these experiences. My vocabulary to communicate emotional needs has significantly expanded too.
The last 20 years has brought an array of pain and pleasure but the difference now is that I see the gifts in all of it and I never feel the victim to my life. I walk with a lightness and freedom that comes with clearing the heart.
I can see how far I’ve come because fear of the unknown has no power over me anymore and the cold hard grip that used to steer me unconsciously into doubt is only a subtle memory.
They say ‘the work’ is never done but I know first hand you can go from seemingly endless chaos to lasting peace and harmony.
From this place I offer Love Intelligence an approach to relationships that starts with personal recovery so that you never lose yourself again. This place of unconditional self-love is where successful relationships can be created and sustained.
The wounds I’d experienced truly were the path to my empowerment and ultimate love expression.
About Love Intelligence
Love intelligence is an approach to relationships starting with SELF firs. It works on clearing and activating 3 significant realms, emotional intelligence, energy expansion, and embodied inner healing.
Learning Love Intelligence is the ultimate gift to yourself and your partner or future relationship. It is potent in uncovering and healing stubborn emotional scars that stop us from experiencing deeply connected soul-mate level love and intimacy in relationships. If this is left hidden it can eat away at our potential happiness and leave us feeling at the mercy and shame of our triggers and automatic reactions.
For all people to have access to their emotional freedom is so important to me because it can quantum leap you into a whole new reality. When you are consciously empowered to witness your emotions this allows you to communicate and deepen trust, love and intimacy.
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These self-healing techniques filter through every area of life – beyond love relationships directly into parenting, friendships, your career or business and ripples outwards exponentially into the conscious field.
This is my way of helping the planet.
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